Hi
We don’t see HIV passing with the sex you have described.
As mentioned in the previous public question. There are no symptoms that are caused by just having HIV. The symptoms people get with a HIV illness are common symptoms that can be caused by many different conditions. The only way to find out if someone has HIV is by doing a HIV test you can’t go by the symptoms.
I would recommend seeing a health care professional about your symptoms. As you are worried about HIV it would also be good to get a test for this as well. If your uncomfortable talking about your risk and HIV testing with your regular doctor it is always possible to get the HIV/STI testing done first with a different health care provider.
If you are in BC Canada let us know if you need any assistance finding a clinic in your area.
Health Nurse