Thank you for writing in with your concerns. If the condom was on your penis while you received a blowjob and you still had the condom on after you removed your penis from the persons mouth; then the tip of your penis was protected from any fluids and you cannot get HIV from this sex. The symptoms you describe that you and your wife are experiencing are not symptoms of HIV. If these symptoms continue, please consider seeing your doctor.
This answer was posted on June 25, 2018.