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Home / Answered Questions / I gave oral sex to a civilian woman (ONS) and the next day she complained that the outside of her vagina really hurt. I thought it might be because I spent 1/2 hour on her until she came and that I spent too much time there causing a lot of friction. Now she won’t reply to any of my messages. Only used tongue on her clitoris and no fingers. I will get checked for STD’s, but should I be worried?

I gave oral sex to a civilian woman (ONS) and the next day she complained that the outside of her vagina really hurt.I thought it might be because I spent 1/2 hour on her until she came and that I spent too much time there causing a lot of friction. Now she won’t reply to any of my messages.Only used tongue on her clitoris and no fingers. I will get checked for STD’s, but should I be worried?

Hi

I don’t know the full details of her symptoms or sexual history, but it is possible that the friction from the oral sex could be causing the pain she is having.

As most STI do not show symptoms and are common I think your idea of going for an STD check would be good.

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