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Home / Answered Questions / I went to a strip club thinking it would be safer than seeing an escort or a massage parlour. There are two private lap dance sessions that I am worried about regarding any STD/STI risks. 1) I only have my underwear on (no pants) and the dancer is fully naked with no underwear on. And she grinds her pussy on my penis over my underwear. 2) The dancer have her underwear on and she pulled my undwear lower a bit showing a bit of my penis and starts to grind on it for a few minutes then I slide my penis back into my underwear. Thanks.

I went to a strip club thinking it would be safer than seeing an escort or a massage parlour.There are two private lap dance sessions that I am worried about regarding any STD/STI risks.1) I only have my underwear on (no pants) and the dancer is fully naked with no underwear on. And she grinds her pussy on my penis over my underwear.2) The dancer have her underwear on and she pulled my undwear lower a bit showing a bit of my penis and starts to grind on it for a few minutes then I slide my penis back into my underwear.Thanks.

Hi

Lap dancing is a pretty safe way to have sex.

Some  STIs, such as genital warts (HPV), herpes and syphilis, can pass with grinding but there needs to be direct skin to skin contact. 

You had your underwear on with the first lap dance and there was no skin to skin contact,  so there should be no risk of STIs.

With the second  lap dance it sounds like  the woman had her underwear on.   There should be no risk to you even though there was brief contact with your penis –  because her skin was covered.

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