I went to a massage parlor few days ago. The lady massaged on my back with massage oil, but in one instance, I have accidentally touch her genital area with my palm. However, her underwear was on throughout the massage (i.e. touched her underwear actually, hope you will understand what I mean). After the massage, she offered me a handjob, without massage oil at first, but with oil later and I ejaculated in her hands at the end. I have not use condom for that handjob, and we do not have any other kinds of sexual activity. May I know that if I will be infected any STIs especially HIV? Do I need to go any tests for STIs or HIV? I feel quite depress and anxious after this occasion (especially touching the lady's genital area with her underwear on), please kindly give me some profession advice, so that I can relief from that.

Home / Answered Questions / I went to a massage parlor few days ago. The lady massaged on my back with massage oil, but in one instance, I have accidentally touch her genital area with my palm. However, her underwear was on throughout the massage (i.e. touched her underwear actually, hope you will understand what I mean). After the massage, she offered me a handjob, without massage oil at first, but with oil later and I ejaculated in her hands at the end. I have not use condom for that handjob, and we do not have any other kinds of sexual activity. May I know that if I will be infected any STIs especially HIV? Do I need to go any tests for STIs or HIV? I feel quite depress and anxious after this occasion (especially touching the lady’s genital area with her underwear on), please kindly give me some profession advice, so that I can relief from that.

I went to a massage parlor few days ago. The lady massaged on my back with massage oil, but in one instance, I have accidentally touch her genital area with my palm. However, her underwear was on throughout the massage (i.e. touched her underwear actually, hope you will understand what I mean). After the massage, she offered me a handjob, without massage oil at first, but with oil later and I ejaculated in her hands at the end. I have not use condom for that handjob, and we do not have any other kinds of sexual activity. May I know that if I will be infected any STIs especially HIV? Do I need to go any tests for STIs or HIV? I feel quite depress and anxious after this occasion (especially touching the lady’s genital area with her underwear on), please kindly give me some profession advice, so that I can relief from that.

I have not heard of sexually transmitted infections (STI) passing with the activity you described.

There would be no need to go for a STI/HIV test based on the sexual activity you had at the massage parlor.

Have a look at our “Know your chances” web page, it provides information on your chances of getting or passing an STI depending on how you are having sex.

I hope that this information helps you feel better. It is common for people to feel anxious and a bit down after having sex they are uncomfortable with.

Please leave a comment to let us know if this answers your question or if you need more information.

Health Nurse

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This answer was posted on July 22, 2014.

This answer was updated on February 7, 2022.

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