I would really be thankful to you if you guys can please reply urgently. 4 weeks before I had a protected sex with a Thai escort. She probably used a Durex Thin Feel (red) condom. I was all the time in a lying position. She just put that condom on my penis and sucked it for like 30 seconds. My penis was hard by then and then with the same condom on, she came over me and inserted her vagina on my penis. I was still on a lying position. After that she was just rubbing her pussy to and fro (not up and down) on my penis and within max 20 seconds, I got ejaculated within her vagina. Then she gently removed the condom by using a tissue and also cleaned my penis with different tissues. I am really worried and unable to sleep, feeling like hell because one thing she said while she was going off over me when I got ejaculated, she said that you have discharged too much. She then took 2 paper tissues and also cleaned her vagina. What I think is that maybe the semen would have came out of the condom from the end point (open area of condom) and because she was sitting over me so the fluid would have touched her lower body and the vagina fluid may have came into contact with my semen (all I am talking about the lower starting part of my penis as the top head was covered with condom all the time). I don't know if the condom broke or not because the room light was dim but I really don't think so if the condom would have broken because neither such hard rubbing took place into her vagina nor the sucking she gave me was too hard. Her vagina was very lose as she was an escort. Maybe I am over thinking or she was too much concerned for herself either that's why she immediately cleaned her vagina area? But then why she said you have discharged too much of liquid! She was a young girl maybe around 28-32 years. I am also 29. I am worried if I would have get HIV virus as I don't know her status. I am planning a baby with my wife. I am damn worried and even avoiding my wife since 4 weeks as I don't want to infect my wife with any virus. Please please help me and please confirm me if I could have got the HIV virus from above activity? Any chances of getting infected in such scenario? Should I proceed with my wife for baby or is testing really necessary for me before getting engaged with my wife? I am damn worried right now. Please please help me. Seeking your prompt advice. Many thanks.

Home / Answered Questions / I would really be thankful to you if you guys can please reply urgently. 4 weeks before I had a protected sex with a Thai escort. She probably used a Durex Thin Feel (red) condom. I was all the time in a lying position. She just put that condom on my penis and sucked it for like 30 seconds. My penis was hard by then and then with the same condom on, she came over me and inserted her vagina on my penis. I was still on a lying position. After that she was just rubbing her pussy to and fro (not up and down) on my penis and within max 20 seconds, I got ejaculated within her vagina. Then she gently removed the condom by using a tissue and also cleaned my penis with different tissues. I am really worried and unable to sleep, feeling like hell because one thing she said while she was going off over me when I got ejaculated, she said that you have discharged too much. She then took 2 paper tissues and also cleaned her vagina. What I think is that maybe the semen would have came out of the condom from the end point (open area of condom) and because she was sitting over me so the fluid would have touched her lower body and the vagina fluid may have came into contact with my semen (all I am talking about the lower starting part of my penis as the top head was covered with condom all the time). I don’t know if the condom broke or not because the room light was dim but I really don’t think so if the condom would have broken because neither such hard rubbing took place into her vagina nor the sucking she gave me was too hard. Her vagina was very lose as she was an escort. Maybe I am over thinking or she was too much concerned for herself either that’s why she immediately cleaned her vagina area? But then why she said you have discharged too much of liquid! She was a young girl maybe around 28-32 years. I am also 29. I am worried if I would have get HIV virus as I don’t know her status. I am planning a baby with my wife. I am damn worried and even avoiding my wife since 4 weeks as I don’t want to infect my wife with any virus. Please please help me and please confirm me if I could have got the HIV virus from above activity? Any chances of getting infected in such scenario? Should I proceed with my wife for baby or is testing really necessary for me before getting engaged with my wife? I am damn worried right now. Please please help me. Seeking your prompt advice. Many thanks.

I would really be thankful to you if you guys can please reply urgently.4 weeks before I had a protected sex with a Thai escort. She probably used a Durex Thin Feel (red) condom. I was all the time in a lying position. She just put that condom on my penis and sucked it for like 30 seconds. My penis was hard by then and then with the same condom on, she came over me and inserted her vagina on my penis. I was still on a lying position. After that she was just rubbing her pussy to and fro (not up and down) on my penis and within max 20 seconds, I got ejaculated within her vagina. Then she gently removed the condom by using a tissue and also cleaned my penis with different tissues.I am really worried and unable to sleep, feeling like hell because one thing she said while she was going off over me when I got ejaculated, she said that you have discharged too much. She then took 2 paper tissues and also cleaned her vagina. What I think is that maybe the semen would have came out of the condom from the end point (open area of condom) and because she was sitting over me so the fluid would have touched her lower body and the vagina fluid may have came into contact with my semen (all I am talking about the lower starting part of my penis as the top head was covered with condom all the time). I don’t know if the condom broke or not because the room light was dim but I really don’t think so if the condom would have broken because neither such hard rubbing took place into her vagina nor the sucking she gave me was too hard. Her vagina was very lose as she was an escort. Maybe I am over thinking or she was too much concerned for herself either that’s why she immediately cleaned her vagina area? But then why she said you have discharged too much of liquid! She was a young girl maybe around 28-32 years. I am also 29. I am worried if I would have get HIV virus as I don’t know her status.I am planning a baby with my wife. I am damn worried and even avoiding my wife since 4 weeks as I don’t want to infect my wife with any virus. Please please help me and please confirm me if I could have got the HIV virus from above activity? Any chances of getting infected in such scenario? Should I proceed with my wife for baby or is testing really necessary for me before getting engaged with my wife?I am damn worried right now. Please please help me.Seeking your prompt advice.Many thanks.

Hi, thanks for your question. It sounds like the sex you had was protected sex. HIV is not transmitted through fluid contact on skin. If the tip or head of your penis was covered with the condom, then this is considered safe and protected sex and HIV is not transmitted this way.

This answer was posted on November 6, 2017.

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