We do not see HIV being passed to men who get blowjobs and since you were using a condom for the vaginal sex it is unlikely you would have gotten HIV this way unless the condom broke or came off.
As there are many things that can cause the symptoms you describe, it is important to talk with a health care provider to figure this out. The health care provider can take a full medical history from you as well as order other testing that may be needed.
The only way to know for sure if HIV is causing your symptoms is to have an HIV test but from what you have described it is unlikely that it is the cause.
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