It sounds like you are very worried about the symptoms you are having.
There are no symptoms that are caused by just having HIV. The symptoms people get with a HIV illness are common symptoms that can be caused by many different conditions.
The only way you can find out if you have HIV is to go for a HIV test. In BC Canada the HIV test we use has a window period of 3 months. The window period is the time between when a person comes in contact with HIV and when HIV will show up on a test. Even though our HIV test has a window period of 3 months we find that it is 95% accurate by 6 weeks.
If you are still concerned about HIV I would recommend speaking with the health professional that ordered the HIV test. They would be able to look at your symptoms, past medical history, test results etc… With this information they would be able to recommend what further medical care is needed.
There are also other STI (sexually transmitted infections) that can be passed with unprotected vaginal sex. If concerned about this I would just speak with the health professional you see to make sure your testing has covered other STI as well.
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