Had condom protected sex with sex worker. found small abrasion in pubic region, put had on penis with condom on it, got vaginal fluids on hand, then took condom off and worried i got fluids on penis head or foreskin. 3 days later, penile ulcer for 1 week and painful urination for 1 pee. 17 days after, fever, sore throat, heavy duty malaise for about 5 days. then flat rash on tummy arms chest back, swollen lymph nodes in neck, groin, armpit pain. yellow coating on tongue, oral ulcers, herpes on lips, pins and needs in hands and feel, sore muscles, heavy fatigue, muscle spasms, all developed over next 6-7 weeks. Concerned this is very ARS like. Tested 4th gen antigen/antibody and pooled NAAT at 3, 4, and 6 weeks all negative. Then tested a weird result at 9 weeks and 3 days, a ring in the control dot on a INSTI point of care test, then re took it the next day and it was negative ( blue dot in control ). So i guess negative up to 9 weeks and 3 days. What do you think the chances are i have HIV? I am still very fatigued and weak, not myself and i believe i have lost a lot of weight. Have been very worried about this as im only 20 and dont want HIV :( What do you think my chances of having hiv are? Would a 12 week test be conclusive for me? Can i take a rapid test at 12 weeks and call it conclusive even though my symptoms are very indicating or an illness. Im very lost and confused. only 20 yr old.