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Thank you very much for reply to me. Please help me as I am very nervous. I had oral sex with a HIV infected girl on 24 May 2014. I did lick,suck and bite her nipple twice( no brest milk comming), she too lick and suck my penis long time and got my semen to her mouth. I am so concerned and confuse about this case. Since i have been all the time careful to have a safe sex and also so scared to take a test. As your early mail there is no way to get infected HIV. Please tell me if it is possible to get infested STI through the described condition? If I infected any STI how long it will take any symptom what can I do now please help me.

Hi again,

You are right, none of these activities puts you at risk for HIV. You might get another STI this way, though, if she had another STI when you had oral sex. You can get syphilis, chlamydia, gonorrhea or herpes from receiving oral sex without a condom. Different STIs can take different amounts of time before being detected on tests or showing symptoms, and some never have any noticeable symptoms. You can look at the "STIs at a glance" chart to find out about the best time to test. We usually suggest that 2 or 3 months after unprotected sex is a good time to get tested for most STIs. If you do get any symptoms like burning when you pee or sores or rashes on your penis, go into a clinic right away.

Let us know if that helps answer your questions,

Health Nurse

 

This answer was posted on June 6, 2014

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ranjsi says:

I really appreciate and thank you very much for your answers to me now I have good mind to do my work.
Thank you so much for you again.
After two weeks someone do unprotected sex can check for all (HIV and STIs) ?
Is there any risk to infect to me if there are any cut or wound in that HIV infected lady ?

Health Nurse says:

Two weeks after unprotected sex is a little bit early to check for for HIV. Many STIs can be checked at two weeks, but the best time to check for STIs and HIV is 2-3 MONTHS after unprotected sex.

From what you've told me, it does not seem like there is any risk of getting HIV even if she had a cut or a wound.

Health Nurse

ranjsi says:

Thank you are you a Doctor ? Why you mention Health Nurse ?

ranjsi says:

I ask from Doctor he said HIV can Infect from oral sex. Are you sure ?

Health Nurse says:

We are public health nurses who have specialized in STI/HIV.

Health Nurse says:

We find that HIV can pass to the person who is performing the oral sex but we do not see it passing to the person receiving the oral sex.

Health Nurse says:

It sounds like you are really worried about HIV passing to you. Given this it might be worthwhile going for a HIV test at 3 months just for peace of mind.

ranjsi says:

Hi. Please I cannot understand what you mean Iam not good in English explan below ?
We find that HIV can pass to the person who is performing the oral sex but we do not see it passing to the person receiving the oral sex.

Health Nurse says:

Sorry, it is a bit hard to explain. Basically, HIV is not commonly passed during oral sex. It has happened in rare cases. In these cases, HIV was passed from a man with HIV to the person who was sucking his penis. We do not know of any cases of a man getting HIV from getting his penis sucked by a person with HIV.
Maybe it helps to explain it this way: In straight sex, we know of women getting HIV from sucking a man's penis, in rare situations (usually if the woman has an open wound in her mouth at the time). We DO NOT know of men getting HIV from women during oral sex.
Does that make it clearer?
Health Nurse

ranjsi says:

Thank you very much it mean no way to infect HIV when HIV infect lady suck man penis. Thank you again you are doing great service.
I did oral sex 24th may what do you think I want to check for STI ?

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