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In the years since SmartSexResource launched, we have developed a library of questions asked by you, and answered by our expert sexual health nurses.

Our answered questions library cover a broad range of sexual health topics and common questions we hear at our clinics.

STI Transmission (335)

Hello, visit a massage parlour back in 2017 and a week later I had burning throat low blood pressure,slow heart rate,and soon after I start to have red spots on chest and back non itchy,I have itchy buttocks for couple months burning sensation on the skin of the testicles for months,felt tired and luck of energy overall,I have first tes for hiv and other stds at 3 weeks and 6 weeks test for shyphilis and hiv at 3 months,now I still have a red spots coming and go but one on my nose won’t clear up and causing my nose to swelling.should I get test again? I have contact a clinic a few times but they keep telling me is no need for retest.is that hiv at 12 weeks and shyphilis at 6 weeks conclusive.?

Hi, and thanks for your question.
The window period (the time between when a person comes in contact with a sexually transmitted infection (STI) and when the STI will show up on a test) for HIV and for syphilis is 3 months. In fact, 95% of HIV tests are accurate after just 6 weeks but it can take up to 3 months for the final result. It sounds like you have tested several times after this 3 month window period, which means that your tests will be accurate and that you are negative for both HIV and syphilis and it is not necessary for you to get tested again.
The symptoms you describe do not sound specific to either infection. It does sound like you are feeling quite anxious and it might be helpful for you to see a counsellor to talk about the anxiety you are feeling about this sexual encounter and the fear of possibly acquiring HIV or another STI.

Let us know if this does not answer your question or if you have any more questions or concerns.
Health Nurse
 

Is protected sex high risk? Are you aware of any case of HIV with an intact condom?

Hi, and thank you for your question.

Condoms, when used properly, can prevent sexually transmitted infections (STIs) including HIV. Even if a partner is HIV positive, with correct condom use the risk of acquiring HIV would be very low.
The best way to check if you have an infection is to get tested. We always recommend routine testing for STIs including chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis, and HIV for all sexually active individuals

Let us know if this does not answer your question or if you have any more questions or concerns.
Health Nurse

Can I get hiv even if I used condom in correct way in just 2 minute intercourse.

Hi, and thank you for your question.

Condoms, when used properly, can prevent sexually transmitted infections (STIs) including HIV. Even if your partner was HIV positive, with correct condom use the risk of acquiring HIV would be very low.
Of course the best way to determine if you have an infection is to get tested. We recommend routine testing for STIs including chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis, and HIV for all sexually active individuals.

Let us know if this does not answer your question or if you have any more questions or concerns.
Health Nurse

I had protected sex about 3 months ago but i dont know if the condom was latex or not. I am very worried if I have hiv. I have some sort of bumps on the inner part of my foreskin (uncircumcised) that do not hurt. I have also been getting increased acne and dry lips and sometimes a cough that reappears. Can hiv get through a condom and what might these symptoms indicate?

Hi, and thank you for your question

Condoms, when used properly, can prevent sexually transmitted infections (STIs) including HIV.
The symptoms you describe are not associated with an HIV infection. If you are concerned about any current symptoms or about STIs I would recommend seeing your doctor for assessment. And of course, we recommend routine testing for all STIs (including chlamydia, gonorrhea, HIV, and syphilis) for all sexually active individuals.

Let us know if this does not answer your question or if you have any more questions or concerns.
Health Nurse
 

hi i had sex with my new girlfriend then i notice an acne on her face so we went to hiv test after 23 days we were both negative then i start notice some symptoms so i did it another time at 38 (hiv1&2 ab/ag elisa ) hiv pcr at 48 days and at 10 weeks elisa and 12 weeks elisa all comeback negative am i risk free

Hi, thanks for your question. It’s great that both you and your partner have been able to do HIV testing. Acne is not a symptom of HIV infection. At 12 weeks your negative HIV test is considered accurate and based on the information you provided, you do not have HIV. If you have symptoms that you are concerned about, please consider seeing a health care provider for an assessment for other causes. Let us know if this does not answer your question or if you have any more questions or concerns. Health Nurse

I recieved a blow job I was not wearing a condom. What are and symptoms of a sti ?

Hi, thanks for your question. It can be hard to tell if you have a sexually transmitted infection (STI). Many STIs do not always show symptoms. Often, people who pass an STI to a sexual partner do not know that they have an infection. The only way to know whether or not you have an STI is to get tested.

Symptoms of an STI may include:

Discharge from penis
Changes in vaginal discharge
Bumps, sores or a rash on the genital area (penis, vagina or anus)
Blood in the urine
Burning or unusual feeling when urinating
Pain in the pelvis or testicles
Pain during sexual activity and intercourse
If you or your sexual partners have any of these symptoms, it is important to see a health care provider. Getting tested for STIs is confidential, easy, and usually free. If you have symptoms or want to do testing, you can find an STI clinic near you by going to https://smartsexresource.com/get-tested/clinic-finder. Let us know if this does not answer your question or if you have any more questions or concerns. Health Nurse

 

Can I get STD if I deep kiss and sucking breast of a massage girl?I use condoms for vaginal and anal sex and do not use condoms for receiving oral sex.

Hi and thank you for your question.

Using condoms for vaginal and anal sex are a great way to lower your chances of getting a STD. The trick with condoms is that they have to be used from start to finish of the sexual encounter, and they have to be put on correctly. Also, condoms only protect the parts that are covered. That means, infections that are transmitted skin to skin are still possible even if using condoms – like herpes or genital warts. 

Ideally, you would also use some kind of barrier or condom when having oral sex, as some STDs can be passed orally – for example gonorrhea, chlamydia, syphilis.

Though uncommon, some STDs can be passed through deep kissing. Herpes is one example.

Here are some resources that you may find helpful:

Chances with Oral Sex: https://smartsexresource.com/sites/default/files/Oral-Sex-Table-v3.png

Chances with Anal or Vaginal Sex: https://smartsexresource.com/sites/default/files/Anal-Vaginal-Sex-Table-v3.png

Chances with Other Kinds of Sex: https://smartsexresource.com/sites/default/files/Other-Sex-Table-v3.png

Assessing Risk: https://www.srhweek.ca/caring-for-yourself/sexually-transmissible-and-blood-borne-infections-stbbis/assessing-risk/

If you are sexually active, and have new or different partners, or your partners have new or different partners, it’s always a good idea to get tested regularly. Ideally this would happen any time you experience symptoms, or if you don’t have symptoms, test a couple of months after a new partner or risk – this would cover off any window periods (the time from infection to the time it can be picked up on a test).

Hope this helps.

Health Nurse

Can HIV transmit through skin problems?I’ve been dealing with jock itch for a while. It’s usually a red area with small bumps. It’s usually itchy and I scratch it mostly. But it’s not bleeding or I cannot see any ‘open wounds’. I read so many things on internet that says ‘If vaginal fluid contacts with non-intact skin, transmission may occur’But I do not know that what exactly is ‘non-intact’ skin? Is red skin can be considered as non-intact? Or, simply, does my jock itch creates enough room to contact the virus in vaginal fluids?Let me explain my situation from beginning:As I told you above, I’ve been dealing with jock itch. And I had a fully-protected vaginal sex 20 days ago. I didn’t give oral, I only received for 20-25 seconds. There were kissing but she didn’t have blood on her mouth or something. And before the sex or during the sex, I didn’t scratch the area that has jock itch (usually the area between my testicles and inner leg). But I’m worried about if any vaginal fluid contacts with this area during the sex, is there any chance for me to contact HIV? Does the wound need to be actively bleeding or ‘open (?) or any kind of skin problem is enough?And the last thing is: I tested with my partner in a clinic and they used Alere Determine HIV1/2 ag/ab combo (finger blood). Both of us were negative but she said that she had a suspectful sexual intercourse 37 days ago from testing day. Is it possible for a 4th gen point of care blood test to miss infections after 37-38 day?I also tested today in a lab which looks for p24ag+HIV1/2 AB and result came negative but it was only 18 days after this intercourse and my clinican said it’s not enough.So I’m asking to you: Does jock itch (groin, inner leg etc.) creates a risk for me?Is 37-38 days enough to detect for a 4th gen test?Thank you!

Hi there and thanks for your question.

There are many factors that lead to HIV transmission and the different risks associated with getting HIV. 

In order for HIV to be transmitted, you need to basically consider 3 conditions:

1) There has to be a person with body fluids (blood, semen, vaginal or rectal fluids, breast milk) containing good quantity and quality of HIV 

2) An activity with another person (unprotected sex, sharing drug injection equipment, pregnancy or breastfeeding, occupational exposure)

3) An entry point in to the other person (rectum, vagina, mouth, vein, broken skin).

If any of these conditions are not present, HIV will not be transmitted. Even if HIV gets into the body, it will not necessarily result in infection.

This website has some great information on HIV and transmission: https://www.catie.ca/en/pif/fall-2011/exposure-infection-biology-hiv-transmission

The long and short of it is that based on what you have described, your risk is very very low…that said, if you are in doubt…getting tested is the best thing. Which is what you have done.

4th generation HIV tests are the really really good tests for detecting HIV early on. The main reason is that these tests look both for a part of the HIV virus itself, and your immune system response. 

I am not sure where you are writing from, but in BC, 4th generation tests are the first line blood tests done on people who have a blood test for HIV. 

These tests can usually pick up infection by about ~2-3 weeks (16-18 days) after an exposure. At 6 weeks, 99% of individuals infected with HIV will have detectable antibodies.

37-38 days after an exposure should be plenty enough time to pick up an infection if it were there.

I hope this answers your questions.

Health Nurse

Hi, Actually Im worried about the scenario that happened with me. So me and my buddy were sharing a joint together and my buddy is sexually very active and had sex with a lot of strangers so I don’t know if he’s HIV positive or not. Actually what happened was that we were in the car and he ignited the joint and took 4-5 puffs from it and then passed it to me right away . I smoked a lot instantly and then same thing passed it to him he smoked and finally I finished the joint. after that we went home and I saw that my buddy has a cut on his lip with blood on it. moreover he might have cuts or sores in his mouth and blood from his lips or mouth may have got onto the joint and entered in my mouth when I smoked the joint. Thing is I have bleeding gums and blood from the joint may have came in contact with my gums and entered in my bloodstream. My gums doesn’t bleed profusely like an open sore or wound but still bleeds sometimes here and there. so my question is what are the chances of getting HIV from the scenario explained? Im really really really worried.

Hi there and thanks for your question.

Based on what you have described, the likelihood of you getting HIV is very low.

That being said, if you are at all concerned you can go and get and HIV test to put your mind at ease. In BC, it is recommended that everyone (regardless of their risks) be tested for HIV at least once in their life. Any time you have a change in your health, or you are worried about a risk you may have had (sexual or as you have described here), that is another indication for testing.

In order for HIV to be transmitted, three conditions need to be present:

1) A person has to have body fluids (semen, blood, breast milk, vaginal or rectal fluids) that contain a good quantity and quality of HIV 

2) There has to be an activity with another person ( unprotected sex, preganancy and delivery, sharing injection equipment, occupation exposure)

3) An entry point in to the other person (rectum, vagina, mouth, vein, broken skin)

If any of these conditions are not present, HIV will not be transmitted. Even if HIV gets into the body, it will not necessarily result in infection.

This is also explained in the Canadian AIDS Treatment Information Exchange (CATIE) website: https://www.catie.ca/en/pif/fall-2011/exposure-infection-biology-hiv-transmission

I hope that this helps.

Health Nurse

I have had a sexual relation with a Tanzanian woman, .this included drinking her pee straight from her Vagina,and also a great amount of licking her vagina. Am I in danger of catching any STDS or other diseases

Any time you have sexual contact with a new partner and/or a partner whose STI status you do not know, you may be at risk of catching an STI. It’s always a good idea to be tested for STIs like gonorrhea, chlamydia, syphilis, and HIV whether you have symptoms or not. If you have symptoms, you should be seen right away by a health care provider so that they can order the appropriate tests for you and especially from the appropriate sites.

Hope this helps.

HealthNurse